Your lack of control is not due to the big burdens, but to your permitting the little frets and cares and burdens to accumulate.
If anything vex you deal with that and get that righted with Me before you allow yourself to speak to, or meet anybody, or to undertake any new duty.
Look upon yourself more as performing My errands and coming back quickly to Me to tell Me that message is delivered, that task done.
Then with no feeling of responsibility as to result (your only responsibility was to see the duty done) go out again, rejoicing at still more to do for My Sake.
Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines; for our vines have tender grapes. Song of Solomon 2:15